The Grail was like a rocket-propelled leap forwards – or better still, inwards – on the journey of personal growth.

It was very intense for me. The men completely had my back. The funny thing is I went into The Grail wanting to be a better husband and father, but came out of it with so much more than that.

I found the power of The Grail is that it doesn’t try to teach anything or turn us into anything. It helps men to drop our masks and armour so we can find, meet and embrace our true self; as scary and exhilarating as that is.

I didn’t want anyone to know how dead I was inside. Since The Grail, I can tell you that I have never felt more alive, more whole, more balanced in my entire life.”

This change is so big that I don’t even recognize who I am at times. I hear Spirit in myself answering for me and it is not that I am thinking everything all the time now. I feel calm and at ease with who I find myself to be in a whole new way.

For me The Gift was a place to be heard, validated, loved, cherished and to be given space to find true meaning in my life. I feel it was a place to heal my heart and to support healing and truth about myself.

The best event I have ever attended, thank you very much.

The Gift was AWESOME!!!! ….. I feel so blessed to have found this space, blessed to connect with such amazing women …….. blessed to discover more of me ….. blessed, blessed, blessed

In this task filled, pressured life, The Gift is a place of safety where I can be my “true self” and see others the same way. Shematrix is an organisation that has supported me in continuing to explore the deeper parts of myself and my life.

There aren’t many opportunities for men to reveal their truth. To come out from the facade we hide behind each day and say, this is who I really am and not worry about being judged. The Grail is so safe an environment, that vulnerability is natural, is courageous, is welcomed.