There aren’t many opportunities for men to reveal their truth. To come out from the facade we hide behind each day and say, this is who I really am and not worry about being judged. The Grail is so safe an environment, that vulnerability is natural, is courageous, is welcomed.

“I describe The Gift as one of the most powerful transformational weekends out there. Also, the best money I have ever spent, I invested in myself!!!”

The ongoing support is amazing; I feel safe to show up just as I am, and being held in this way I am constantly growing and evolving, always deepening my connection to myself and in turn my capacity to hold others in compassion becomes stronger all the time.

I challenge all men who read this to dive into the unknown. Allow yourself to have all of you, not just the good bits – ALL of it!

I didn’t want anyone to know how dead I was inside. Since The Grail, I can tell you that I have never felt more alive, more whole, more balanced in my entire life.”

I have never experienced anything like The Gift in my life. Each time I have experienced it, I am surprised by myself and what emerges. I experience this as an intense journey that offers me deepening and expansion in ways that are unpredictable and highly energizing and grounding.

It was very intense for me. The men completely had my back. The funny thing is I went into The Grail wanting to be a better husband and father, but came out of it with so much more than that.

I am now part of a brotherhood, a community of men, of like-minded men. I’ve been back to The Grail and I keep coming back for the depth, the humility and the wholeheartedness I feel when I come here.

I was reluctant to come and in the end I took a leap of faith. The Grail has changed my life, transformed my life. I am closer to my wife, my family. Closer to what really matters to me in my life, which is what comes from my heart.

In this task filled, pressured life, The Gift is a place of safety where I can be my “true self” and see others the same way. Shematrix is an organisation that has supported me in continuing to explore the deeper parts of myself and my life.