Shematrix is home. It is where I can rely on hearing the truth, and celebrate honesty and depth. It is where I can discover more of myself.

The Gift is a place where I can go and hear my own self speak in a way I don’t find anywhere else in the world.

At that first Gift I attended I sat and watched the guides and said “one day I’ll do that for women”. The inspiration for me was in the witnessing of such transformation within the women and the great power that was held in sacred space.

I have done lots of workshops and retreats but The Gift is like nothing I have done before. It’s hard to describe in words and I have received so many compliments since I attended. My friends say, “I want what you’ve got”.

The Grail was the making of me as a man. The challenge was daunting but the environment was inclusive and honest, and I felt safe and held enough to finally surrender. With gratitude to my brothers, I have started the journey of my life.

I have gained a deeper level on how I interface and interact with all the people in my life. Being in the training has enhanced and deepened my sense of personal responsibility and this again in turn has helped in all my relationships in life.

It was very intense for me. The men completely had my back. The funny thing is I went into The Grail wanting to be a better husband and father, but came out of it with so much more than that.

The Grail has allowed me to be more grounded in my life and have a closer connection with my partner, my family and with other relationships in all areas of my life.

I found the power of The Grail is that it doesn’t try to teach anything or turn us into anything. It helps men to drop our masks and armour so we can find, meet and embrace our true self; as scary and exhilarating as that is.

As David Whyte so elegantly puts it, “leave everything you know behind”. This training has the capacity to catapult you to a place you never imagined you could travel. The love and support I have experienced in the Shematrix Training has changed my life forever.